Trandescendant
Father/daughter duo, Joe and Rya, discuss LGBTQ family issues and how to preserve positive relationships
Episodes
167 episodes
Joe & Rya TAKE FIVE: New Texas Bathroom Law
A new segment where Joe & Rya discuss a current topic. This week is the new Texas Senate Law 8.Listen to the FULL EPISODE on Monday
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Season 4
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4:48
Being Different Doesn't Mean Being Wrong
Have you ever noticed how the word "normal" gets turned into a weapon? People use it to make LGBTQ+ folks feel like something's wrong with them just for being different. They act like statistics prove morality, as if being in the minority makes...
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Season 4
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Episode 14
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30:36
Finding Faith After Religious Abuse
You've been hurt by the church. Maybe you walked away years ago, or maybe you're still trying to make it work in a place that tells you who you are is wrong. The wounds run deep. Spiritual abuse often comes wrapped in Scripture. Two-thirds of C...
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Season 4
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Episode 14
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36:04
We Are Still Thankful In Dark Times — Here's Why
With rights under threat and uncertainty everywhere, choosing thankfulness can feel like denial. But what if gratitude isn't about pretending everything is fine? Learning to find thankfulness is more than just emotional comfort, it's survival s...
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Season 4
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Episode 13
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28:20
How LGBTQ Infighting Is Doing Our Enemies’ Work
History shows us that divided movements stay powerless. But the pattern never changes: together we stand, divided we fall. Right now many factors are fracturing the rainbow coalition that built everything from Stonewall to marriage equality. Me...
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Season 4
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Episode 12
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28:35
Rate Yourself on LGBTQ Family Acceptance and See Where You Really Stand
Are you as accepting as you think you are? Most parents believe they're supportive of their LGBTQ family members. But when put to the test, many discover significant gaps between their intentions and their actual level of acceptance. This ten-q...
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Season 4
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Episode 11
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32:13
LGBTQ Coming Out Readiness Checklist
Are you wondering if it's the right time to share your LGBTQ+ identity with family, friends, or your community? The decision to come out is deeply personal. Timing matters more than you might think. Whether you're feeling pressure to come out o...
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Season 4
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Episode 10
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34:08
The Real Reasons LGBTQ Adults Cut Contact with Family
Why do loving, supportive parents still lose their LGBTQ children? The answer isn't what most families expect. Learn how to recognize the hidden patterns that destroy family relationships before it's too late. Understanding these dynamics will ...
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Season 4
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Episode 9
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31:10
Here's What We Learned About Non-Binary Identity
Do you hear the term "non-binary" and feel confused or overwhelmed? What does it actually mean? How do pronouns work when someone uses both he and they? Eos, who leads a local transgender support group, breaks down the real experience of non-bi...
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Season 4
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Episode 8
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31:36
What to Do When Your Loved One Shuts Down
Have you ever poured your heart into loving someone only to discover they don't feel loved at all? This happens frequently in LGBTQ+ families where parents think they're being supportive, but their child feels misunderstood or invalidated...
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Season 4
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Episode 7
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31:39
What This Supreme Court Term Means for LGBTQ People
The Supreme Court is hearing cases right now that could fundamentally reshape what it means to be LGBTQ in America. States are passing laws that ban medical care for transgender youth, restrict which sports teams kids can join, and , and ...
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Season 4
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Episode 6
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42:25
Why Avoiding LGBTQ Talks Backfires on Parents
Most parents think, "Don't confuse them," "They're too young," "Let them figure it out themselves." These all sound like reasonable approaches. But the research reveals a shocking truth. Families that stay silent about LGBTQ issues actually har...
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Season 4
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Episode 5
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33:29
LGBTQ+ Political Engagement that Actually Changes Things
Tired of feeling powerless while politicians make decisions that affect your life? Your voice carries more weight than you realize. Especially at the local level where real change happens fastest. Most people stop at voting. But the smartest ad...
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Season 4
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Episode 4
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29:30
The Hard Questions Parents Don't Want to Admit They Have About Their LGBTQ Child
When your child comes out as LGBTQ+, suddenly you have questions you never expected to face. Did you cause this somehow? Will they ever truly be happy? What if this is just a phase and you're enabling something harmful? These are the 2 AM thoug...
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Season 4
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Episode 3
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33:20
Joe & Rya TAKE FIVE: Charlie Kirk's Assassination
Conservative activist Charlie Kirk was assassinated today at a college speaking event in Utah. Regardless of where you stand politically, murder is never the answer to disagreement. In this special episode, Joe and Rya give us their personal re...
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Season 4
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5:25
LGBTQ Questions You Want to Ask But Shouldn't
Understanding the difference between supportive curiosity and invasive questioning isn't just about avoiding awkwardness. Many of us want to ask questions about LGBTQ experiences. We care deeply and want to show genuine interest, but the fear o...
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Season 4
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Episode 2
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36:07
When Your Child and Grandchild Are Both Trans
It's our third year anniversary of Trandescendant Podcast! And boy, do we have a shocking episode for you. We decided to expand our podcast from two to three generations. And this might surprise you, but Rya has a transgender son. This is his s...
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Season 4
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Episode 1
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35:05
How To Discuss Hard Topics Without Conflict
Have you ever tried to have an important conversation with a family member only to watch it explode into an argument you never wanted? Most people think there are only two choices when something needs to be addressed: stay silent and let resent...
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Season 3
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Episode 52
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30:52
2 Simple Techniques that Bring Healing When LGBTQ Family Relationships Are In Danger
What happens when the conversations that matter most feel impossible to have? Too many families avoid difficult talks until relationships reach a breaking point. They think they're protecting each other when they're actually making everything w...
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Season 3
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Episode 51
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29:40
“I Don't Hate Gay People, But...”
Have you ever noticed how some of the most hurtful rejections come wrapped in language that sounds accepting? Coded phrases hide judgment behind politeness, creating what feels like acceptance but actually delivers conditional love with strings...
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Season 3
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Episode 50
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30:37
LGBTQ Laws and Rights Worldwide: Proof that Acceptance is Gaining!
The global landscape of LGBTQ+ rights reveals dramatic contrasts that might surprise you. While places like Iceland, Canada, and the Netherlands boast acceptance rates above 90%, over 30 countries in sub-Saharan Africa still criminalize LGBTQ+ ...
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Season 3
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Episode 49
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35:08
Should Coming Out Be Encouraged?
Is it better to stop hiding who you are, or are there times when staying private is the better choice? This question divides even the most supportive allies and LGBTQ+ advocates. From teenagers navigating hostile family situations to adults man...
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Season 3
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Episode 48
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30:00
Why Your Queer and Trans Friends Are Scared and What You Can Do
Real people are losing access to healthcare, having their gender markers erased, and watching their rights disappear with each new executive order and state law. While some allies post supportive messages online, many don't grasp the depth of f...
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Season 3
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Episode 47
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32:21
When Loving Your LGBTQ+ Child Feels Like Betraying God
Thousands of Christian parents feel trapped between two impossible choices: fully supporting their LGBTQ+ child or staying faithful to their religious beliefs. This devastating dilemma tears families apart and leaves both parents and children f...
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Season 3
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Episode 46
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30:49
A Direct Message to Anti-LGBTQ+ Voices
We know that many LGBTQ+ critics are tired of being painted as hateful bigots when their heart is in the right place. We understand your position because we believed exactly what you believe now, and we can explain why we changed our minds with...
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Season 3
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Episode 45
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26:00